Why won't my parents just let me get married for god's sakes?
So I'm a 21 year old vietnamese american guy in San Jose and I am depressed angry and desperate because I cannot get a girlfriend on my own. My parents asked my relatives in vietnam to find me a girl for me to marry but I cannot marry her until I finish college or either get a job. It's hard to get a job in this economy right now. I just wish I can drop out of college and get a job at Burger King and marry her. It's gotten to the point where I don't give a crap about a college degree anymore since I really don't have the skills to finish college because of my learning disorder. I am tired of waiting and I want to jump on the next flight to vietnam from San Jose. My parents said you got to have patience and they said wait until next year in August when we fly to vietnam to meet her. I'm so desperate and I want to marry her and let all of these rude rumors and people fly by me. If I marry her then I can forget about all of these rumors and rude people because I will have her in my life. Why won't my parents just let me get married ??? I'm so desperate and sometimes I think i be better off being dead.
Marriage & Divorce - 6 Answers
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Getting married won't fix all of your problems! You HAVE to have patience and everything will fall into place... finish college and so many doors will open for you! You can get a good job and maybe find someone that you will love! I hope this helped.. patience is a virtue and you need to use it!
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Don't give up your college degree! That time will pass fast and you will meet better quality ladies! finish college!
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Ya right! I'm Vietnamese too I have never heard any guys young like u go back Vietnam married a girl.
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The only problem with getting married to her right now is that she may be expecting you to support her and your job at Burger King will not support two people, and then if a baby comes along you are probably back relying on your parents and then the three of you will be unhappy...it is in your best interest to finish school because that degree will allow you to actually manage a Burger King or work many other places besides basic jobs. I understand that life is hard right now but it will get better. Sometimes we have to wait for our good...like it is not done baking yet. See if you can find some friends to talk to who will understand and be supportive of you while you are going through this hard time. It will get better.
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Life is not so unworthy that you can put an end to it so easily.The problem before you is not at all a very complicated or something that cannot be solved.Patience is the mother of all virtue.All your parents want is wait for them so as to approve of your girlfriend,they have not objected you from marrying her.In spite of that if you want to marry her no one can stop you,but will you be really happy without your parents support?Life is easier and happier when everyone approves and support for the marriage and you have lots of people to share your happiness,which the y say doubles if shared.
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Whatever you do, Marcus, wear your cute red Vietnamese dress. And the bra and the makeup. You look great in all of it!
